事與願違

A thing or matter; an event or incident; work or business; to serve; to do or perform.

And; with; to; for; to give or grant; to take part in; to agree or allow; to approach or follow.

To wish or hope for something; to be willing or agreeable; a vow or pledge; to admire or envy.

to violate; to disobey; to go against; to separate from; to be apart from; to avoid